When a couple decides to separate or divorce I think something inside them dies.
For most, they realise their is blame to be apportioned to both sides.
For some…blame seems to be directed to their partner solely.
Where it gets really ‘icky’ and painful is when the children are seen as some sort of pawn in a bitter game for power, creditability, reputation or just plain selfishness.
People who use own children as tools in a bitter divorce have stopped thinking about their kids and are being selfish and ultimately self harming.
Because even if you win the battle, you wont win the war. The children will eventually figure out what has happened, and what is going on…even if it takes years.
Husbands….love your wives…..Wives…love your husbands.