Toughest one I have written. Needed to have some good music on as I dredged up stuff I would prefer to not think about, but the story needs to be told…at least I need to tell it.
There will always be at least one
I met Melinda when I was 19 and she was 15 and three quarters. That 3/4’s is pretty important as I tell this story…
We started going out shortly after that, and I took her out to a Chinese Restaurant for her 16th birthday. I don’t know what her mum was thinking, but I remember what she wore, and the fact she was a stunning redhead. Funny that, I always had a thing for redheads.
When I went off to Adelaide about 12 months later, I did not know what would happen, and the time over there was trying…very trying. I was in Adelaide for three years studying, But we did get engaged over that time.
Short story…we got married shortly after I got back from Adelaide, and although there are some things we regret about the wedding, some of the family things, and the ring she had, looking back now after 17 years, we are happy to be married.
It has not always been easy, we have had our fair share of fights. I struggle to be completely comfortable with couples who never fight, and are always talking in glowing terms about each other. It just smacks of a ‘show’ to me. I am more comfortable with people who are realistic about their marriage, but in love with each other.
I love Melinda, she loves me.
This year when I sold my old Vitara, by happy twist, we found a ring independently of each other, but the same ring! I bought it that day and have been keeping it until today, our 17th Wedding Anniversary.
Love my wife, and she loves me….
One reason is to have an online journal of my life.
I wanted to find an old post, and found this one instead.
In it I talk about my holidays that year with the family. And there are some pictures uploaded. One of them is of Clem standing next to a lifesize model of Aaron Sandilands. Even taking into account he is standing next to the 211 cm Dockers Ruckman, he still looks short. Thats cause he has grown a lot the past few months.
Time with your children is so precious, and goes so quick.
‘God give me the strength and wisdom and grace and enablement to be the parent you want me to be, a loving father, a caring husband, a priest to the Edwards family”
Pretty Impressive eh? Try doing that on your android!
(Northpoint Church)
Presenting a Family Concert on Christmas Eve this year, and a Christmas Day service.
Both will be great times of song, fun and inspiration.
Bit of a quandary this year with Sunday falling the day after Christmas. Told the pastoral team they could have the day off…after a really busy and hard working December. So if we did anything, it would be up to me. Then I was getting the hard word as well….boxing day is for family. Fair call.
Can’t see many people wanting to be in Church on Sunday after such a busy weekend…so no service on Sunday it is.
Hope you are yours are getting ready for a great festive time. If you live in Perth and are looking for somewhere to go to Church over Christmas, you would be very welcome at Inglewood Community Church. 
“Reverend Joe Westlake left the church when his ‘term’ was up. In those days, and in many Baptist Churches still, the pastor has a ‘term’ of time where he is called by the Church to Minister. In is a patently defeatist method. What happens in reality is that the Church knows that if things don’t ‘work out’ with the pastor, there is no need for real conflict, they just don’t ‘recall’ them. The Pastor knows that if he is not enjoying the ministry, or seeing results, they can just move on with no embarrassment.”
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This is my new car, new for me anyway…
Lady I bought it off is a teacher, and just bought herself a Mercedes.
She had taken it up to Karinjini and also lived in Lesmurdie, with a dirt trail driveway, so I have spend the morning cleaning it.
It has done 70,000 K’s and after negotiation cost us $19 grand. Pretty happy with that to be honest. After years of driving a Automatic 1.6l Vitara, I was determined that I would get something with a decent sized motor, and not an automatic. The old one was a good car, but limited. We used to tow a trailer down to Bremer Bay, and it made it okay, but struggled with hills and heat. I don’t think this one will even notice the trailer on the back to be honest.
Good condition, motor and clutch are good. Needs one new tyre, which does not sound a lot, except she had spent money on it, and it has the best tyres you can get for this model, Coopers, and one is going to set me back $280. But it has a good Haymen Rheese Towbar so there is nothing else to spend on it.
It goes like a scalded cat…plenty of power, and the air conditioning is fantastic.
Best car I have ever owned, and am looking forward to years of family vacations and fun in it.
Happy Mark in front of his car
